Last week, Amy wrote a priceless SOL about her children http://theamyrudder.blogspot.com/ using the mentor text, Fortunately by Remy Charlip. I do not yet have the book, so I guess I am using Amy's post, based on Charlip's text, as my indirect mentor text this week as I write, once again, about my aunt's adventures after breaking her hip! I suspect all this sounds complicated; however, living, loving and learning, too, are the complex balancing acts of family life depicted each week in our SOLs.
- Fortunately, she came through surgery for a reversed obliquity intertroch fracture (RevIT) easily. She greeted her nurse with a cheery, "Oh, hi, Marie," bringing tears to not only Marie's eyes!
- Unfortunately, RevIT repair requires patients to not put any weight on the leg/hip for a month so her recovery will be delayed!
- Fortunately, our Medicare system has a system called "rehab" that provides senior citizens "places" to heal for 20 days for "free."
- Unfortunately, finding the best-for-your-loved-one "rehab" is hard and ultimately location and cleanliness are factors that can trump the "rehab" part!
- Fortunately, there are many "rehab" options in our the local area.
- Unfortunately, most "rehabs" might be more accurately called spaces where people are awaiting placement in "nursing homes."
- Fortunately, she still has not only her marbles, but also her sense of humor, "It's like boot camp for seniors, and I never wanted to go to boot camp!"
- Unfortunately, she's there for many months "learning" the Hoyer lift, butt up the bed slide, and hopefully, some day, as the leaves begin to depict their full-color potential, the senior walker shuffle.
- Fortunately, I was there as she endured the "entry" exam that required her to remember things she used to know before spending a week in suspended time, and that invaded body parts only seen by airline screeners.
- Unfortunately, I was not there when she endured the Hoyer-lift-roller-coaster-ride and the physical therapy team's debate about the best plan for her.
- Fortunately, "a family's support helps you get to the next level" whether you are headed off to college or to boot camp for seniors!
7 comments:
I love the structure given by the mentor text. Such a struggle to get through life. She is fortunate to have your support.
I think you must share your aunt's sense of humor. The structure of the fortunately/unfortunately contrasts reveals the bright side of this tough recovery.
I know it is a blessing for your aunt to have you there to help her negotiate this current obstacle with love and humor. Best to all on this long road.
I so glad you were there for her. I wish you more fortunate than unfortunate in the healing process. XO
I so glad you were there for her. I wish you more fortunate than unfortunate in the healing process. XO
I loved that last "fortunately" - a family's love and support gets us through so much.
Your upbeat manner of writing all this must be helpful for your aunt too, Anita. What a time you all have had, especially of course your aunt. Best wishes for a very fast recovery!
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